The adage says that variety is the spice of life. But does it apply to threesomes? Of course, but what\’s it all about? Threesomes are increasingly popular because they offer three people access to each other\’s uniqueness and pleasure. They involve trust and intimate knowledge of your partner\’s body. Everyone gets more attention when there are three people than in a dyad or monogamous pairing, so no individual has to worry about feeling neglected or unloved.
What is a Threesome?
A threesome is a sexual encounter between three people, where there are no restrictions on who has intercourse with one another. It can be two men and one woman, two women and one man, or any other combination. It doesn\’t matter if all partners are heterosexual.
There are many general rules and guidelines to follow when arranging threesome sex:
1. Consent must be given by all the parties involved. They must agree if you want to do a threesome with your partner. If they say no-go today and tomorrow, that\’s it – you can\’t push them as it would make you appear a possessive/controlling type. However, if this is not the case (three people agree), you will have no choice but to respect their decisions and move ahead with your plan.
2. Everyone should agree on who the third person is. If you are a man, your wife can bring a female friend or vice versa. If you have a girlfriend, she can invite her best friend over for lunch, and after wine, the number of people can increase – make sure you both agree beforehand.
3. The person bringing the \’third party must have a good relationship with their partners. Don\’t worry too much if they had an affair with someone in the past, as long as it was resolved beforehand and everyone is comfortable with it afterward. If you agree, the 3-way sex will be more exciting.
4. Each person needs to have a good understanding of the sexual nature of their partner. If you don\’t know how your partner performs in bed, they may not know what turns you on either. Therefore, if you are an \’average Joe,\’ and your wife is turned on by seeing two men interact sexually with each other, telling her that you have no idea how to act as a bisexual man will only kill the mood (not to mention maybe ruin your relationship).
5. It\’s best to get consent from any guests before they arrive at your home (unless they come directly from work). If they stay the night and then leave in the morning, you\’ll have no idea what they got up to.
6. No one should have sex with someone who has just come to the party (unless your partner is not sexually active and doesn\’t know what to do). Sexual threesome acts have a way of getting out of hand. The last thing you want is someone being bored and trying something else because they are drunk.
7. Everyone at the party needs to be on their best behavior as it will reflect on you if you misbehave or get drunk. Only drink when you treat this as a social gathering – never let alcohol get in the way of sharing your passion for each other\’s bodies!
Conclusion
Threesome sex can be fascinating. It allows you to express your sexual fantasies in a safe and non-judgmental environment. You will enjoy being part of something bigger than yourself and see that you are loved as an individual. You can be sure that if you agree with your partners, they will be on board with your desires and also respect your needs. Staying alcohol-free helps to avoid any mishaps or unwanted behavior from guests at the party. Coming clean to your partner first is a must, so there is no awkwardness later on when enjoying sexual activities again.